Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Amish country, Trace, Gettysburg and "the Accident"!

May 15-25, 2017

AMISH COUNTRY
Driving from W. Virginia towards Pennsylvania, I noticed a change in the landscape.  This included different types of trees, it was less mountainous and in some parts, there was more traffic.  Working our way towards Intercourse, Pennsylvania (yes, that's where we'd be staying for the next ten days),  the green hills soon turned into farmland.  Entering Amish country, soon we'd be dodging Amish families in their horse-drawn buggies on the road towards our RV spot. I was excited to live (for 10 days) among their culture as I was intrigued by the admirable lifestyle.  Our RV park was an adult only park with not many sites and our site was about ten feet away from an Amish farm.  Our new neighbors were outside visiting with other retired friends but welcomed us warmly.  A lot of RVer's come to this spot each spring and summer (snowbirds) and over the years some of the regulars got to know our Amish neighbors quite well.  Our Amish neighbor was Sam and his family has been on this land for generations.  He is a hard working farmer where he and his wife raised six children.  More about the Amish ( Sam and his family)  later on, but we were ready to go exploring.   A couple miles down the road was the cute, Amish town of Intercourse with the majority of the stores being owned by the Amish and/or Mennonites.  We bought a delicious pretzel while in town and across the street was an Amish owned meat store.  They carried homemade butter, farm fresh eggs, fresh chicken, beef and enticing Amish desserts.  The parking lot was shared with horses and buggies and the cashiers in the grocery store were young Amish girls.  We continued to explore the surrounding area which primarily was made up of miles of farmland being worked by Amish men and their sons.  The simple (but lovely) homes had laundry strewn from the house to the farm, with many road stands along the way selling farm grown produce and fresh eggs. 
Perry and I discussed our dinner plans for the night and decided to get a bottle of red wine to go with our meal.  The grocery store (the nearest was 7 miles away) didn't carry any alcohol which was no surprise considering where we were.  The clerk mentioned we "might" find wine at a local gas station "market" another 7 miles away.  We didn't mind the beautiful and serene drive to get that bottle of wine!  The drive took us to a quaint town (once again Amish farmland everywhere)  with rivers and several covered bridges.  I was not minding this peaceful area of Pennsylvania but the next day we would check out Lancaster (pronounced Lank-is-ter) a population of 60,000.
Out of the Appalachians

Sharing the road

A cultural experience

An Amish farmer

The truck parked outside an Amish store

One of over one hundred covered bridges in the area
























































 We found a park to let the dogs play rewarding ourselves on this warm day with a beer at a local brewery our friend recommended.   The dogs got a lot of attention on the patio and our view was of a beautiful private college, Franklin and Marshall.  The dark clouds were hovering and it was time to head back.  Locals recommended we visit the town of  Lititz with its cute downtown and beautiful parks.  Here we found another great park for the dogs and a delightfully old but busy main street with a well known, century old chocolate factory.  We weren't far from the Hershey chocolate factory but opted to keep it on the smaller (less populated) side, visiting the Wilbur chocolate factory instead.
Long's Park in Lititz, Pa.


A park in Lancaster

TRACE ADKINS
The W. Virginia train ride would have been enough for Mother's Day, but my thoughtful husband also purchased tickets to see country star, Trace Adkins. The venue was thirty minutes from us in the town of East Lampeteer at the American Music Theater.  I've always loved his music and the energetic, one and a half hour show wasn't long enough for me, leaving me wanting more!  Well done, Trace!  The delightful evening ended with dinner at a hotel called "The Steamboat". 
"The man"!

Amazing Performer
A little dinner after the show




GETTYSBURG
The local farm towns have community sirens that sound if there is a fire (there are quite a few local brush burns) and this morning I had heard a siren for the first time.  Shortly after, someone pounded on our door making my heart skip a beat.  It was a local Amish girl selling baked goods.  She was so sweet and we couldn't resist the selection of goodies, especially "whoopie" pies. 
Growing up, I never enjoyed history (memorizing dates…..terrible!), but now as an adult I really appreciate learning about what shaped this great nation!  Perry and I made the hour drive to Gettysburg learning more about the Civil War (the Union vs. Confederate armies), the young lives that were lost and buried here.   In the museum were some of the actual ammunition and uniforms used in the war. We stood at the place where Lincoln delivered the Gettysburg Address of 1863 and walked along the unmarked graves of the Union soldiers, then stood at the open space where the battle of the North vs. South was fought.   Our country was shaped and defined by this war and this is a place everyone needs to visit!  Our day ended with a lunch at a small restaurant with well known German food.  The owner was an interesting guy who was interested in genealogy and assisted in bringing history to families.  This made me think of how my Dad and I researched family history together until 2008, when we lost him.  I promised to continue my efforts and the owner sparked the interest once again.  After Pennsylvania, we were to head to New Jersey to visit my Uncle (my Dad's brother) and Aunt. 
Instruments used in the Civil War

Many of the actual guns used

A selfie with statue if President Lincoln

Soldier's National Cemetary


Gettysburg Memorial




















The Battle































Brandon and "The Accident"!
Our trip here in Pennsylvania was coming to an end and we wanted to pick up postcards in town.  Brandon called us while we were walking and informed us over Face Time he had just heard from a Tap Room in Chico about employment.  He was excited to make extra money and needed a haircut before going in to fill out paperwork.  Happy to see his excited face (via technology) we transferred money to his low college student account.  Fifteen minutes later, I received a call from Brandon but on another number I didn't recognize.  "Mom, I was in a car accident"!  We had just talked to him! "What? Are you Ok?"  "I don't care about my body, just my car".  He loved his 20 silver Mustang that was now totaled.  "My arm is bleeding and they called an ambulance".  This is NOT the kind of call you want to get when you're 3,000 miles away, making you feel ill and helpless as a parent.  Thank God he wasn't seriously hurt but did get stitches in his arm, hand and leg.  I didn't care about the car, only the well being of our dear son.  (Brandon was spun around after the other driver ran through a yield sign losing control and running into a house). The other driver was not hurt and according to the police report, was clearly at fault and without insurance!
Getting past the shock of the accident, the reality sunk in of no insurance of the other driver, needing a rental car, etc……. I pray for our children's' safety and continued good health while on this trip and I look at it that my prayers were answered. Given the speed of the other driver and the fact Brandon's solid Mustang was totaled, I feel prayers and the car saved him. 
Once his pride and joy!


THE AMISH- My limited knowledge, perspective and reflection!

I admire and respect what the Amish stand for……..Church going, family oriented, hard working with very limited resources of the outside technology world.  The children don't attend school beyond the 8th grade as the boys work on the fields and the girls teach younger children, helping around the house. 
Pony Boy- Sam, the father/farm-worker across from us would be out on the field first thing in the morning, coming home at dusk.  Most of his children are married but the youngest is about ten years old.  He helps his Dad on the farm, but each day rides one of his two ponies.  We watched outside our fifth-wheel, his care-free and dare-devilish ways riding his pony bareback going so fast that at times I couldn't watch. 
Sam- Every day Sam was out farming and he would hitch up his five "jackass" (half donkey/horse) team right outside our fifth-wheel.  He was dressed in long pants, long sleeved shirt and a hat (it was hot this week).  His roosters would get them up (and others) early each morning.
The people in general are very quiet and subdued not having a lot of contact with the outside world except maybe in retail (baked goods, eggs, candles, etc.).  The houses are very conservative with attached garages containing buggies.  The women and men dress differently than the Mennonites.  On Sundays, the Amish families gather and the children can be seen playing soccer.  Each morning we were awakened by the "Klip-klopping" of hooves, families going to work or children to school. On Sunday mornings, the long line of buggies going to church was like a freeway.  It's amazing to see how the horses are unaffected by the cars and trucks on the road and the number of buggies riding next to traffic.  Their buggies do have turn signals and brakes enabling them to be safe on the roads.

I say this a lot- but this IS a place I will miss! 
A knock on the door......

And......the goodies!

Pony Boy

Farming right outside the Fifth-Wheel

Sam the farmer!

Sam and his team!




NEXT- MY SOUTHERN PERSPECTIVE…….., NEW JERSEY, THE FINGER LAKES AND WATKINS GLEN, N.Y.

An Appalachian Trail in W. Virginia (Train Rides, Entertainers, Yosemite (Jr.) and the Falls

Beautiful West Virginia
May 10-14-17

The social planner and driver, Perry, made reservations awhile ago on the outskirts of a small town called Elkins, W. Virginia in the Monongahela National Forest.  The GPS took us up a narrow road where we missed our turn into the RV park. We eventually turned around a few miles down the road arriving at another unique place called Smokey Bottom RV park.  The young owner told us to pick a spot (not many RV's at this place) which we found next to a "babbling brook".  We were first greeted by a couple who were so excited to see our license plate from California, she came up to us saying "finally, normal people".  We weren't quite sure what she meant since she had never met us.  Comes to find out, she was from California and hadn't been back in many years, missing her home state.
The next day we made an hour drive to Seneca Rocks to do some hiking.  The drive was so picturesque with all the greenery and rivers running through the mountains, spotted with century-old homes and white-steeple churches. The formation of Seneca Rocks reminded me of a small Yosemite.  After, we ventured over to a park called Blackwater Falls State Park which was magnificent!
Are we there yet ?
Rock climbers were on Seneca Rock!
Ahh....freedom!




















Beautiful Blackwater Falls

Missing our Children

 During the Derby, Kaylyn had her birthday but three weeks later, David (our oldest) was celebrating his birthday.  Knowing we recently saw Kaylyn and soon would be seeing Brandon during the next couple of months made it a little easier.  David had recently gotten a new job and wasn't able to make a trip out to see us.  Technology is a wonderful thing, so we could wish him a "Happy Birthday" over FaceTime.  Taylor, his wonderful girlfriend of four years made sure he felt special on his special day!  His birthday always falls close to Mother's Day (sometimes on the actual day) ………my Mother's Day gift…

The dearly missed "Birthday Boy"

Perry and I attended Church together on Mother's Day with the large windows looking out over the mountains.  Since being in the south, you can't help but notice most of the churches have cemeteries on the property.  Catholic churches typically don't, however, this beautiful friendly church did.  The young pastor was newly assigned and pleaded to the congregation for guidance in being a good, "hands on" pastor.  He had a good sense of humor and drew us into the Mass. We left with a Mother's Day carnation and some parishioner handshakes….off to a great day! 
Perry wanted to take me on a two hour old fashioned steam engine ride through the Monongahela (Appalachian) Mountains.  The scenic hour long drive took us to a very small town that primarily was supported by the train rides.  We got there early so we decided to get a drink before.  We sat at the bar next to a "crusty" grumbly old sort of man who turned out to be the train conductor.  This was going to be an interesting ride!  The small crew shoveled in coal to the steam engine built in the early 1920's which was used to transport logs back in the day.   They sounded the train whistle and off we went at a clip of 15mph.  It turned out to be a lot of fun and we got to know and like our conductor…….he was quite the character!
    
Appalachian Performers 

Mother's Day


Not confusing, right?

Our steam engine in the Appalachians



The "crusty" old conductor



A typical hollow


(I am intrigued by the Appalachians for many reasons but mainly the people.  It's a different culture and from what I read online the people originated from Scotland and Ireland settling in the mountains.  They found work either in the coalmines or timber and most of the people over the years in the Appalachians were uneducated, hard working, of modest means who were happy staying away from the outside world.   They are religious Christian people but not necessarily affiliated with any one religion.  They live a simple life!

There's something about W. Virginia that really tugged at our hearts.  We loved the simplicity, the kindness of the people and the beautiful serene mountains.  We're going to miss it!


Off to Pennsylvania and Amish Country!

NEXT- AMISH COUNTRY, LANCASTER, PONY BOY AND TRACE ADKINS!



Sunday, July 16, 2017

Tennesee...family, horses AND The Kentucky Derby!

TENNESSEE FAMILY

We left the next morning for Paris, Tennessee where we'd be joined by Perry's sister and brother-in-law, (Patty and Don) who flew in from Texas.   We always have fun together and this time was no different.  We were staying in an RV park not far from family and Don and Patty rented a cute cabin across from us.
We all got together with Perry's niece's and nephew for a small family reunion in the small town of Paris, a part of Tennessee where some of Perry and Patty's family is from.   It's always fun to hear family stories realizing just how important family is! We were all treated to a delightful dinner out, enjoying the best catfish. Afterwards, we joined Perry's niece and her husband (who is Chief of Police in Paris) at the annual Paris Catfish Fry followed by a rodeo. 
 After spending a few days with family, we left for the town of Shelbyville, Kentucky. There weren't full hook-ups meaning Kaylyn and I had to shower in the bathhouse!  Definitely an inconvenience before the derby but Perry swears it all balances out since our unique spot was surrounded by families of geese and a rare type of fishing boat that lights up at night. Another cute but small town with not a lot to do, we took this opportunity to show Kaylyn how we seek out small, unassuming places.  We found a small restaurant that happened to be offering karaoke that afternoon.  I couldn't resist surprising Kaylyn by putting her name on the list  and she sung her old time favorite "I'm a Red Neck Woman".  Thankfully, she wasn't angry with me for being bold but somehow must have realized how much I've missed her and her singing…..and I have!
Family get together

A night at the local rodeo!

Rodeo in Paris, Tn.

Some of the Tennessee Family members



















Horses, more horses and while in Kentucky……visit a Distillery!

Kaylyn has loved horses since she was a small girl (recently acquired her own"Bandit"), and prior to the Kentucky Derby wanted to tour thoroughbred farms.  We did this over a period of two days touring the most beautiful Kentucky countryside.  There were many colts on the farms that were as young as a day old and we saw offspring of the Triple Crown Winner, American Pharaoh.  The stature of these beautiful colts were evident they were from royalty, displaying a muscular build and athletic ability.  The next farm we visited was a stud farm.  I was fascinated by the process of breeding a thoroughbred and the money it takes to invest in one of the these beautiful animals.  This particular stud farm was not only stunning to look at but I was impressed by its' cleanliness.  On our tour, we were shown how four workers place a male and female thoroughbred together in a small arena where they mate. Stud fees for racehorses can be as high as $20,000.  I don't know much about horses, but my overall observations were it's a business for investors who have a great deal of money.  The grounds and buildings are meticulous and well manicured and the horses are spectacular looking with their athletic and muscular builds. 
Entrance to one of the Thoroughbred Farms

The grounds













The size, muscles and build!!





Worth Tens of Thousands
Triple Crown winner "American Pharoah"'s offspring
"The connection"




















Kentucky has a lot of history to it and we decided to take a side trip to Frankfurt (state Capitol)  where we stopped at the Buffalo Trace Distillery.  We missed the last tour of this historic place but while in line buying souvenirs, an employee who had just gotten off work offered to take us around.   An old brick building of the early 1800's stored many floors stacked with barrels of aging whiskey.  On the bottom floor was the packaging room where employees hurriedly filled and packed bottles.  The employee took us to a place not offered on a tour, where a recently uncovered room revealed the original Buffalo Trace Distillery of the late 1700's.  We couldn't have thanked this young, married family man enough who took time after work to show us around. 

Floors of aging whiskey

The bottling and packaging line

Whiskey storage tank

Entrance to the Distillery


















The Kentucky Oaks and Derby

Kaylyn and I had a short amount of time to prepare for the derby so we headed out for a much needed mother/daughter shopping trip.  This included buying dresses, shoes and hats (we were making our own), a trip to Michael's where we purchased feathers, ribbons and netting.  Together we decorated our derby hats, keeping mine on the conservative side (later wishing I had done more) while Kaylyn opted for a decorative headband. 
The weather was predicted to be rainy and cold. Kaylyn and I had gone into many stores looking for rain ponchos but were informed that were all sold to someone who sells them at the Derby for a profit.  Restrictions applied to what you couldn't bring in and of course the one thing…..umbrellas! The day of the Oaks (day prior to the Derby), I couldn't wear my cute, comfortable sandals because of the rain so I wore boots.  Kaylyn didn't have the option and wore sandals.
Churchill Downs Entrance

A cold rainy day at The Kentucky Oaks

We couldn't resist the "selfie"

Definitely, one of the most exciting things we've done!















           The Kentucky Oaks             
The Kentucky Oaks is an event for 3-year old fillies always held prior to the Derby. We were so excited to be going to Churchill Downs even if we had to drive over an hour and through nasty weather to get there.   A shuttle bus took us to the entrance of Churchill Downs and the three of us were so excited (despite the cold and rain).  Going through the entrances you couldn't help but notice hundreds of umbrellas that were given up prior to entering.  First, we toured the muddy racetrack, bought mint juleps and headed towards our Grandstand seats. The people behind us were from California and offered us extra ponchos.  They honestly saved us from the wet seats where we weathered the cold.    This day,( because of the weather) the event was not packed with people and we shivered through the races.  It was fun and memorable but the best was yet to come……..

The Kentucky Derby
By our experiences of the Oaks, we had an idea of what to expect at the Derby.  The vibe was entirely different, however.  The Derby is a rare "breed" (no pun intended) in itself with lots of fancy hats and outfits for guys and girls. There were a lot more people, more mint juleps and cigars (Perry bought both) being offered and the level of excitement was unmatched.  Thankfully, the sun was shining and it was slightly warmer day.   Kaylyn brought us to the paddock area where you can view the horses and jockeys prior to entering the track.  Here, we cheered them on while taking pictures with the National Anthem being sung by Harry Conick, jr. , everyone singing "My Old Kentucky Home", and the bugler playing the song prior to the race.  The race was about to begin!  We were close to the muddy racetrack and I still marveled at these beautiful racehorses.  The actual Derby race lasted only a few minutes and prior to this, Perry and Kaylyn had stood in line to wager bets.  Kaylyn placed a small bet on the first-place winner, "Always Dreaming" and I was ecstatic she had won.  It was an epic, long, memorable day and we were all exhausted!
Derby Prep
It was cold but worth it!




Paddock area for jockeys and their horses

Cold Derby weather

And........they're off!

Happy Faces....like the beret?





Sharing these wonderful moments at the Derby with Kaylyn was the best.  I couldn't be happier to have spent this time with her and was sad to see her go back to California.  This long-awaited part of our journey was coming to a close with hugs and many tears.  Time to venture on……